I had a wonderful weekend at West Virginia University. On Friday I was a guest speaker for a presentation I gave in the rather large auditorium in the Health Sciences Building. It was both encouraging and inspirational to look out at the crowd and it was near capacity. The crowd of students and others in the medical field treated me well. I think I was able to offer them something in return. If nothing else, I kept them entertained.
I know they were interested because I didn’t see a single person look away from me. This was a big deal to me, when a student will lay down their smart phone like it doesn’t even exist. From what I’m told, it is a rare thing for them to ask questions, but that was not the case for me. Even rarer, I hear, is students clapping so enthusiastically at the end. The rarest of all? Students coming up to the speaker after class and showing their support.
Even as of today, Monday morning, I am getting emails of appreciation and support.
WVU Health Sciences Complex
As I began my presentation I asked who had heard of what happened to my son. Nearly every hand went up. Nearly every one! It warmed my heart. I felt like hugging each one of them. It let me know that Ryan remains relevant at WVU and Morgantown.
I spoke for the full fifty minutes. I wish I could tell you exactly what I said — or a least give you a recap — but I was in the zone. I spoke without note cards and made no mental plan of what I might say. Fortunately, it was video taped by the school and a copy will be given to me. My daughter, Kari, also recorded it from an iPad. I’ll take a look at it today and see if you can hear me.
Either way, I’ll post the video soon enough.
I was invited to speak again. Even several times a year, if I could. My hope is now that I performed well at both WVU and Duke University that other speaking opportunities might arise. Turns out, I’m damned good at public speaking. It comes easy to me. The more I do it the better polished I expect to become too.
The reality is that the message is important and it’s not so much me. I get it. Actually, I want it that way. This isn’t about me.
Hi Ken,
I am one of the students who had the privilege to listen to you speak at the WVU HSC. Ryan’s story really touched my heart and I am amazed at your strength to carry on every day. I have been telling everyone I know about Ryan’s story and the amazing family he has rallying behind him. I wish you and your family all the best and I will keep Ryan in my prayers.
So proud of you!!! That’s awesome Mr. Diviney!!
Congratulations! Good job.
so glad to hear it all went well. Not surprised you were well received and well listened to……I hope this is the beginning of a new chapter for you…..speaking so others will listen, think and learn. A big cyber hug to you!
Hi Ken, not surprised the students loved your presentation!! I’m sure they were captivated listening to someone who has not only the technical and book knowledge, but the actual life experiences to go along with it. This is what makes your words so powerful — you have been on the front lines with Ryan for over three years, and you’ve got the battle scars as well as the victories to show for it. Also, to be on the cutting edge of something so profound — I’m sure there were some sharp students sitting in that class wondering if they, too, could help in the advancement of TBI knowledge. You are a great mentor to those seeking ways to overcome obstacles, Ken. Your dedication and innovation also translate into hope for those who may have lost theirs. I see many public speaking engagements in your future — not only in the TBI realm, but in the areas of motivational speaking. Great things to come — and Team Diviney is behind you 100% !!!!
Love, hugs, prayings continuing and always great hope!!
Paula
We are not surprised you are a fantastic speaker, you are an incredible writer. Even if one did not know Ryan, they would be captivated by your writings. We have been telling you this was in your future, spreading Ryan’s story in this mode. Congratulations! Also, so happy that Ryan’s story has been passed to the next graduating classes of WVU.
Great job!
Of course it was a success. Nothing can stop the Divineys!
Ken, Sounds like speech went very well and I’m sure they’ll be many more invites to speak. A wonderful service you did for these students entering this field of therapy and care
love gail
Congratulations!