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Ryan Home from ICU: Photos & Video

June 26, 2014 by Ryan's Rally LLC 59 Comments

Yep, the past 3 days were rough. So intensely difficult on Ryan and my family. As most know, yesterday was my birthday. It was absolutely the worst one in all the 50 I’ve had. More on that later…

Also, if you need a quick recap on why his surgery is necessary, click here.

Below are several pictures that chronicle the time. You can navigate between photos by clicking on the dots below it, or just let it scroll automatically.

  • Driving to surgery in the middle of the night. We were up at 4AM and on the road around 4:30.
  • Ryan in Post-Op. We waited for hours before a bed became available in the ICU.
  • Ryan's vital signs in recovery. His pulse, respiration, and blood pressure begin to elevate as the anesthesia begins to wear off.
  • Ken visually assessing Ryan in Post-Op.
  • Sue comforting Ryan in Post-Op.
  • Ryan in ICU the day following surgery (June 24). His face is swollen and eyes are bruising. Blood has saturated his dressing.
  • I broke down in tears at this exact moment. Ryan gets the dressing removed while in the ICU. The left side is shaven. The staples and sutures are clearly visible. His head will continually sink-in further over the next week as the surgical swelling subsides.
  • Back home last night. His head is now completely shaven. We are measuring the length of the most concerning area, as we will do every night until it is completely healed.
  • Ryan returns to his normal therapies this morning. He must wear a helmet for certain activities, but it can be removed when his head is secured.

 

Here is a news broadcast — Channel 5 out of West Virginia — that ran the evening following his surgery. Like you, I will be watching it for the first time after I publish today’s post.

 

Back to my birthday. I COMPLETELY forgot about it. It wasn’t until late-morning that I was reminded when Sue (rather apologetically) said, “Oh my God, Happy Birthday!”and told me that she couldn’t give me a breakfast in bed, but how about bringing something up from the hospital’s cafeteria? She had every excuse in the world for forgetting about it… hell, I did too! Anyhow, this all happened around eleven in the morning. Breakfast in bed was impossible for two reasons: 1) I had no bed, and 2) breakfast was no longer being served. So, I had lunch in a chair… and we just couldn’t help but to laugh about it.

We also knew this was not going to be “happy” because we’ve been through five of these since Ryan was so brutally beaten. Most were spent in a hospital or rehabilitation center since. Remember Sue’s last birthday? We spent it in the hospital as Ryan was having surgery for kidney stones removal.

Birthdays — like other holidays — are simply emotionally painful. It was no different this year. Truth is, I have yet to open even a single present. Not because I’m not excited or appreciative. I simply have neither been in the right state-of-mind nor had the time!

Many asked what they might do for me on my day. Yes, my reply to you is belated (for circumstances we all understand), but no less important. Actually, there are two things. First and foremost, keep Ryan in your thoughts over the next year. Second, in solidarity with over 157,00 others, sign the Anti-Parole Petition to keep Austin Vantrease in prison. If you already signed it then ask (or get permission from) another to join in!

Austin Vantrease, criminally convicted of felonious Malicious Assault, is currently imprisoned at the St. Mary’s Correctional Center for the incarceration of “felons who have been convicted of severe crimes against man…”

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Filed Under: News Tagged With: Anti-Parole Petition, Austin Vantrease, ICU

Comments

  1. Amy Moran says

    July 1, 2014 at 7:59 PM

    How do I sign the Anti-Parole petition?

    Reply
  2. PK Miller says

    July 1, 2014 at 5:54 PM

    Hi Ken! I hope things are going better. As I commented, Tim & I were in NY City for the long Pride Weekend. We staggered home last night too exhausted to do more than collapse on the sofa! I did offer you folks up in prayer at St. Luke in the Fields, wonderful caring Episcopal church in the West Village. You were, I assure you not far from my thoughts in all the busyness and sometimes craziness of Pride Weekend!

    i posted on Facebook urging people to check out Ryan’s Rally & sign the petition. When i started to share it after signing the petition, change.org wanted contacts for my FB friends & perhaps email contacts. There may be little privacy online today. It’s why my niece & her husband wont allow my middle grandniece to actually post the prototype family website she created. (She’s 8 but had plenty of help from big sister age 20!) But I did not want to violate everyone else’s privacy. I only hope all this does some good and some people checked out your FB page etc., and signed the petition themselves.

    I still think if this had been a sex crime or theyd found a microgram of pot or heroin on these guys they would’ve sent them “up the river” for life. we had a case locally where a group of young thugs assaulted a man in a movie theater when he told them they were disturbing him & his young daughter. They got slapped on the wrist, told they were naughty boys, some processed in family court because they were juveniles, for God’s sake. But not too young to viciously assault the man, leaving him critically injured.
    So, Ken, as you know from these postings, you are not alone. Your number, alas, is legion.

    I hope you are in contact with/receiving services from a local chapter of the Brain Injury Association. If there’s an Independent Living Center near you, do reach out to them. They can be of enormous help. If you go to cdiny.org, that’s New York City’s amazing Independent Living Center, Ask them if there’s an ILC & Brain Injury Association in your area. There may be many ways they both can help. While we were waiting (forever!) to enter the line of March w/the Episcopal Diocese of NY, we were talking w/someone we know whose brother suffered a severe TBI, falling down 2 flights of stairs. Their local Brain Injury Association and ILC were of enormous help.

    God bless. Please keep us posted.
    PK & Tim

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  3. Carla Cushman Liberty via Facebook says

    July 1, 2014 at 4:07 PM

    SHSP, NGA. Bless You my friends.

    Reply
  4. Karyn Mandracchia Ahern via Facebook says

    June 28, 2014 at 2:32 PM

    Praying daily for Ryan and your Family <3 <3

    Reply
  5. Missy Ratliff via Facebook says

    June 28, 2014 at 6:15 AM

    Much love to you all. xx

    Reply
  6. Cinda Elswick via Facebook says

    June 27, 2014 at 2:55 AM

    Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!

    Reply
  7. Mara Lee via Facebook says

    June 27, 2014 at 12:25 AM

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  8. Rhonda Morin says

    June 26, 2014 at 10:08 PM

    Rather than comment on the heaviness of this entire experience, I want to add a bit of sunshine….. I really did not like the haircut the hospital gave him. I am glad you cut the rest of his hair, it will all grow in the same now. 🙂

    AND I love that you put him back to work so quickly. No rest for the weary I suppose! You rock as a therapist and if half the people out there worked as hard as Ryan our world would be a few less rehab centers!

    Happy birthday too!!!!

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  9. Anna says

    June 26, 2014 at 9:35 PM

    So sad to see the pictures of Ryan. I hope the parole board is able to see them prior to making their decision. There can be no early release. I hope the judge who sentenced Austin is also able to see them. He was not strong enough to hand out the longest sentence possible, and sadly Jon May got off with a very light sentence and no felony conviction. But look at Ryan! Biking away just a few days post op, he is more of a man than any of them. God bless The Diviney family.

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  10. Donna Miller Zimmerman via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 9:08 PM

    God bless you all…

    Reply
  11. Kathryn Beggs Howlett via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 9:01 PM

    Glad Ryan is home. Happy Birthday Ken. Bitter sweet as it, you are an amazing person, husband, and, of course father. Few of us understand the depth of your pain, and the power of your love.

    Reply
  12. Paula says

    June 26, 2014 at 8:45 PM

    Ego and false pride are the biggest downfalls of humankind — the ego when people believe they are entitled to behave in any manner they wish. False pride when people refuse to admit when they’ve done wrong. There is no genuine happiness or peace of mind for people who steep in these behaviors. They walk the planet outwardly smug but inwardly being eaten alive with negativity.

    The only remedy for this brokenness is to find the courage within to not only admit wrongdoing but also to do something about it. The clichés “talk is cheap” and “actions speak louder than words” apply here. If you find yourself constantly trying to justify, rationalize or defend yourself for pain you have deliberately inflicted upon others, either by your words, your actions, or your lack of actions, do yourself a favor and think about why you’re here on this planet. Only bonafide sociopaths truly lack the ability to be honest as well as the ability to show empathy and compassion. Everyone else who attacks and robs other people of their well being and peace of mind are doing so because they believe they are entitled to behave this way. It is aberrant, inhumane, uncivilized behavior. It is cruel, ugly and destructive. It is heartless.

    VanTrease and May families, I am talking to you.

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  13. Sue Bennett Markley via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 8:36 PM

    So pleased that Ryan has improved enough to get to be back home. He’s a fighter, isn’t he? Praying he stays healthy and improves more with every passing day.

    Reply
  14. Sue Bennett Markley via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 8:30 PM

    Think I have sent the right info, and signed the petition to keep that creep in prison– why would it even be considered is beyond me. Sending more prayers for Ryan and family as this has to be a really tough time for all.

    Reply
  15. Jessica Harris via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 8:16 PM

    Sending

    Reply
  16. Jen Lovelace says

    June 26, 2014 at 7:13 PM

    The pictures break my heart for all of you! The petition had been signed and shared. Please let me do something for you. Anything. Your family is so loved, by so many! Keeping the faith! Love to all of you!

    Reply
  17. Debby Hostetler Bicanich via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 6:56 PM

    OMG this looks just like Corey did after they replaced his skull. I shaved all of Coreys hair in the hospital with a razor the neurosurgeon loaned me. We were there 132 days. How did they let him come home that fast? WOW I hope he shows great improvement in the next few weeks. Hi Ryan glad to see you’re home.

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  18. PK Miller says

    June 26, 2014 at 5:31 PM

    I’m so sorry you’ve all had to go through all this. You deserve to enjoy your birthday. Ryan deserves to enjoy his life.

    I posted on Facebook about the petition, etc. Change.org would have, I fear, compromised the privacy of my FB friends. I didn’t want that to happen. We may not have much privacy left–online or otherwise–but I don’t want to violate whatever privacy people do have.

    I wish you a happy birthday, Ken, and a prayer that everything will work out for ALL of you and maybe your 51st will be truly a happy birthday. (I have 20 years on you. See a lot of s–t over the years. I can only have faith that, somehow, if not in this life then the next, it will all come out right. I remain a devout Christian–Roman cum Episcopalian–and I have faith that somehow, in the end, God DOES “set all things right, in heaven and on earth.” Sometimes it seems life does suck. But we have to keep going forward, putting one foot in front of the other.

    My husband & I are leaving for Pride Weekend in NY tomorrow. we will have very limited computer access till Monday. Tim’s laptop will be safely locked in his desk, in his locked office at the college where he teaches. I will check posts on my Android but it’s difficult to reply on it. Know that you are in my prayers. Our Prayer Table was washed out, yesterday–torrential rains, serious flooding in some areas. My niece said they had more water in their backyard than their swimming pool. We seem to be having a monsoon season!

    God bless,
    PK & Tim

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  19. Carmela O'Connor via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 4:46 PM

    <3

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  20. Gail Doyle says

    June 26, 2014 at 4:45 PM

    No words Ken, Thinking of you all and praying for Ryan to feel better real soon. You all are AMAZING. Praying also for parole to be DENIED!!!
    with <3 Gail

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  21. Allandra Aunt Nancy Washington via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 4:35 PM

    I’m definitely still keeping you and your family in my daily thoughts and prayers. (((hugs)))

    Reply
  22. Kimberly Grubb Schoolcraft via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 4:11 PM

    Sending you love and prayers from NC!!!!

    Reply
  23. David Chagnon says

    June 26, 2014 at 3:57 PM

    Ken,

    You and Sue need to find a way for some alone time! Somehow some way!

    Reply
  24. Yvonne Santora Palestino via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 2:53 PM

    Keeping Ryan and your family in my prayers.

    Reply
  25. Jean Dolan via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 2:07 PM

    Glad your home. Sorry you all had to go through this.Try to enjoy the little things. That’s all any of us have anyway. God Bless and comfort you all.Hugs!

    Reply
  26. Pat Dyer via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 1:50 PM

    My heart breaks for Ryan and all of you and I pray for each of you often. My birthday gift to you is that I signed the petition last week. Would sign a million of them if it would help!

    Reply
  27. Amy Jent via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 1:38 PM

    Ryan has truly shown his strength and you are amazing parents. I pray you jeep fighting and never give up.

    Reply
  28. Sue Haviland via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 1:20 PM

    SHSP

    Reply
  29. Donna Britt Mounce via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 1:01 PM

    Petition signed. Prayers for Ryan’s complete healing! Hoping that those who make decisions at the parole hearing make wise ones…taking into full account the violent crime Vantrease committed and the lasting impact his vicious attack has on Ryan, his family and friends.

    Reply
  30. Alexia Mitrushi via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:51 PM

    Signed and shared. ❤️ Prayers for your entire family.

    Reply
  31. Dave Telfer via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:39 PM

    Continuing to send prayers for Ryan and your family Ken!

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  32. Rita says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:35 PM

    This is so incredibly heartbreaking. Please share these pictures of Ryan with the parole board if you can, and make sure that Vantrease sees what his actions continue to put you all through.. Praying, as always, for healing and justice. We love you Divineys!

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  33. D.Mounce says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:29 PM

    Petition has been signed.
    Continued prayer for Ryan’s complete healing…and strength for your family to face the next parole hearing.

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  34. Leslie Ryan Stasny via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:22 PM

    Prayers

    Reply
  35. Derrick Unger via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:17 PM

    Oh ok I hope for a speedy recovery n that there are no more complications

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  36. Stephanie says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:09 PM

    Petition has been signed. Prayers to you and your family.

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  37. Tammy S. says

    June 26, 2014 at 12:09 PM

    Ken, myself and my boys, Bryan and Ben, have already signed the petition, but plan to again submit our written letters to the parole board requesting that parole be denied for Vantrease. Sending positive and healing thoughts to all of you.

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  38. Jennifer paynter says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:56 AM

    Just signed and shared on my Facebook Ken. Happy Birthday to you and your sweet family. I’m so sad seeing Ryan after his surgery. Its not fair that he’s still suffering so much almost 5 years after the attack.how dare that monster file for parole! I promise to reach as many people personally as I can and get them to sign the petition. Its the least I can do. #teamdiviney

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  39. Derrick Unger via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:56 AM

    What procedure did he have

    Reply
  40. Lucianna Perlin via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:54 AM

    Awful! I am so sorry you all have to go through this…of course I signed the petition. Keeping Ryan in my thoughts and prayers

    Reply
  41. Heather says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:53 AM

    My heart goes out to you so much, Ken (and the entire Diviney family of course). Although birthdays don’t mean much anymore, please know that so many of us are sending and have sent you the very warmest of birthday wishes. You are such a doting and devoted dad, your kids are a testament to that. My wish for you, (aside from Ryan recovering from this whole horrific ordeal) would be that 1) you KNOW and truly believe everything we all see. YOU are one in a million and you have risen higher than I figured would even be possible when it comes to caring for Ryan. You have sacrificed your “life” to give Ryan as much of a life as possible, to keep him here and well, I don’t even think Drs could do it as well as you have, Ken. You ARE TRULY a hero and an angel on earth. And my last wish would be for you to receive as much love as you give and have everything you have given up, bestowed to you in as many wonderful ways as possible. We all love you and Ryan and Sue and Kari…if we didn’t, we wouldn’t be here. So glad Ryan is home and we all pray he makes a full and speedy recovery. Happy Birthday Ken!

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  42. Derrick Unger via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:53 AM

    So sad that this happened but at least he has An amazing family n support system you’re all I’m my thoughts n prayers my brother was shot 9 times in a random act of violence they didn’t think he’d live but he’s here today we have issues we deal with but he’s our miracle just like Ryan is yours

    Reply
  43. Christine Parks via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:49 AM

    So sorry. Hope they took good care of him at fairfax

    Reply
  44. Emma Hudson Witham via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:45 AM

    Thinking of you always and will continue to share your heartache. Take care. xxx

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  45. Paul Rapsawich via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:45 AM

    I love that kid. Stay strong…in our thoughts and prayers.

    Reply
  46. Pam Dodson via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:44 AM

    Continued prayers for you all. Praying God’s blessing and favor over your family. Much Love. The Dodson’s – Fairchance, PA

    Reply
  47. Claire Renee Dahm via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:41 AM

    Continually thinking of you all!

    Reply
  48. Dottie Roy via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:40 AM

    Praying for your son….my son and all TBI PEOPLE

    Reply
  49. Linda says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:39 AM

    I’m sorry about this nightmare you’re living in. It breaks my heart. I definitely sign bed the petition and will keep you’re family in my prayers always. Xoxoxoxo

    Reply
  50. Candy Allen Bauer via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:28 AM

    You all are in my thoughts EVERY SINGLE DAY.

    Reply
  51. Vicki Vandenberghe via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:28 AM

    Prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family!

    Reply
  52. Melanie White Moccaldi via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:26 AM

    Have you all gotten to take a break? I know it must be incredible hard to step away but you give so much of yourself. Prayers for you all!

    Reply
  53. Holly Boecker Hardin says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:25 AM

    Petition signed! And sent to my family and friends to sign as well!

    Reply
  54. Trish Byrd via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:24 AM

    Thoughts and prayers

    Reply
  55. June Williges Bradford via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:23 AM

    Praying.

    Reply
  56. Vicky says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:23 AM

    Our hearts go out to all of you and we continue to keep you in our prayers. Would be interested in hearing if the doctors gave you a reason as to WHY the the prosthesis started to protrude and what they can do to make the next one better. No doubt that Ryan will be well cared for by you all.

    Reply
    • Ryan's Rally LLC says

      June 26, 2014 at 11:26 AM

      It began to protrude because his scalp was rubbing on the edge. It’s somewhat uncommon for this to happen, but certainly not unheard of occurring.

      The next prosthesis will NOT be titanium mesh. It will be a polymer specifically designed for his cranial dimension and shape; using a CT Scan taken two days ago.

      Reply
  57. Lisa Gaskin via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:20 AM

    Blessing you today and every day!

    Reply
  58. Jaimi Dean Franus via Facebook says

    June 26, 2014 at 11:14 AM

    Sickening feelings that y’all had to go thru this. You’re right, TBI presents challenge after challenge that never end. So sorry that your humble and loving family have to handle this every single day.

    Reply

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